Shania Twain: "Managing Very Well" After Split

Us Magazine - June 12, 2009 9:32 AM PDT
Story photo: Shania Twain: May 15, 2007 Jon Kopaloff/FilmMagicUs Magazine
One year after her split from her husband, Shania Twain says she's "managing very well, in fact.

"I'm enjoying my child, friends and family like I haven't in years, and it's great..." continues Twain in a letter to her fan club on her Web site.

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"I've been experiencing and seeing new things every day, living life with a different and more optimistic attitude," the singer goes on.

Twain and Robert "Mutt" Lange separated in May 2008 following news of his affair with Marie-Anne Thiebaud, Twain's longtime friend and secretary.

At the time, Twain said: "I need some time to heal this broken heart, but make no mistake: I will be back and hopefully stronger than ever."

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The country singer went on to dazzle at the Country Music Awards last November -- and debut her relationship with Thiebaud's ex husband, Patrick.

In her new letter to fans, Twain says she doesn't need to rehash the pain of her breakup.

"The personal issues that took place just over a year ago have been well documented, and theres no need to go into more detail here," she writes. "Since then, I've been inspired by my pain to write and use writing as a therapy through the suffering. I truly wouldn't wish this on anybody as a means to get inspired, but it's been a productive period with so much emotion trying to find it's way out."

She's focused on songwriting and raising her 7-year-old son with Lange, Eja D'Angelo, in Switzerland.

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"As many things as there have been to write about through this difficult time in my life, healing is serious business and has taken a lot of the wind out of my sails, slowing me down at times," she writes. "As you know, I am a mom and all my energy goes to making sure my little man is healthy and happy in every way. This is a full time job, as any parent understands, but especially difficult when you are battling your own personal crisis at the same time while trying to spare your child of being affected by your own suffering.

"During this intense period, I was managing to hide my devastation from Eja and cried only when I was alone," she confesses.

"One time when I was having a weak moment listening to some sad music and sobbing and slobbering over my computers keyboard, Eja walked up behind me and asked me why I was crying," she goes on. "He wasn't sad at first -- just totally surprised to see his mom crying (he is seven and never saw me cry before), and didn't know what to make of it.

"I was quick on my feet to answer him though and told Eja that music was very powerful and can make people quite emotional," Twain continues. "It can make you want to dance, feel angry, happy or sad and that this song was sad and made me cry. He accepted this, hugged me and went back to what he was doing. Phew, that was tough!"

Life has returned to normal.

"Each morning I put my son on the school bus, feed our two dogs Sony and Dolly, drink my orange juice and sit down at the computer to write," she says.

Her songs "often comes out in the form of poetry, diary notes or e-mails to friends," she says. "I often go back to my e-mails for song ideas. When I write in letter form, I don't hold back."

But she's also taken a few chances.

"I've jumped out of an airplane at 10,000 feet, I'm riding Spanish and Arabian horses, traveling to exotic places, I've been deep sea diving for the first time!" she writes. "I pull the odd all-nighter, read more books, listen to Eja's favourite music with him, LOUD (ironically his favourite band is ACDC) and basically I'm enjoying life."

Twain is grateful to her fans.

"The many blogs and e-mails have warmed my heart, strengthened my confidence, given me courage, and have often even made me laugh out loudin a good way! I know I am not alone and realize through your support that you are all [rooting] for Eja and I, and our well-being."

"Time has a way of making everything right, and it is my hope that good music will eventually come out of it," she says, explaining the delay in putting out her next album. "I say 'good music' since I don't want to just throw anything at you, just for the sake of hurrying up to get it out."

Twain signs off: "Till next time, my friends. Be well, and peace and happiness to all of you. Love, Shania."


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  • HotRats
    She is truly a beautiful woman. And so talented.
    report abuseposted August 18, 2009 7:09 AM PDT
  • how_come17
    Hi Shania, don't worry...Live goes on... You are a very beautiful woman with a spectacular voice. I am your fanatic fans, and I do want you to move faster.... We, all of your fans, are waiting for your next album, and I am sure that it would be great, because you made it with your heart. So Shania.., don't make your fans dissapointed. I do miss your voice in your new album. S E M
    report abuseposted July 7, 2009 12:12 AM PDT
  • sweeetone86503
    SHANIA, I HAVE BEEN IN YOUR SHOES BEFORE, EVENTUALLY IT WILL BE A LESSON IN YOUR LIFE. I A MOTHER OF 3 HANDSOME BOYS, THEY ARE MY FIRST PRIORITY THAN ANYTHING ELSE BECAUSE THEY MAKE ME STRONGER. I SURE HOPE THINGS WILL BE BETTER AGAIN FOR YOU AND YOUR LITTLE MAN. WOMEN ARE STRONGER THAN MEN.....HANG IN THERE AND BEST OF LUCK AND WISHES...HOPE YOU COME BACK SOON......
    report abuseposted June 30, 2009 10:58 PM PDT
  • bill w
    Hi Shania I have been in the shoes you are wearing, ans its hard and life has to go on. We are all just people that have our ups and downs. Yes as a star it becomes more public and abusive. You are a strong women and a personel favorite of mine. You will survive this and become an even stronger person, And somewhere there is a person that will be there for you. Love ya always William
    report abuseposted June 14, 2009 6:40 PM PDT
  • bill w
    Hi Shania I have been in the shoes you are wearing, ans its hard and life has to go on. We are all just people that have our ups and downs. Yes as a star it becomes more public and abusive. You are a strong women and a personel favorite of mine. You will survive this and become an even stronger person, And somewhere there is a person that will be there for you. Love ya always William
    report abuseposted June 14, 2009 6:40 PM PDT
  • Shyann
    I hope she makes a better partner to her new man then his previous one did. Best friend? Not!
    report abuseposted June 14, 2009 3:26 PM PDT
  • Rhino
    Honestly, why should anyone care? Shania Twain has always made sure to stay isolated from her Fans. She lives in a mansion in Switzerland and New Zealand and has always kept her distance from us. No one ever sees her, unless she wants them to (which isin't very often, except when she needs a shoulder to cry on) and I don't know about you but, I stopped caring about Shania Twain,
    report abuseposted June 14, 2009 2:26 PM PDT
  • Ocean Lovers
    Divorce is very painful for you and children. I've been there and yes it did make me a stronger person. You feel as though your life ended but it actually begins. I'm now happilly married again and thought I'd never be. Keep up the good work you and your son will get through this. Everyone does.
    report abuseposted June 14, 2009 1:21 PM PDT
  • someone
    I look up to you ! you are a brave women. I wish you and your son well. I hope life is good for the both of you from here on.
    report abuseposted June 14, 2009 12:57 PM PDT
  • someone
    I look up to you ! you are a brave women. I wish you and your son well. I hope life is good for the both of you from here on.
    report abuseposted June 14, 2009 12:57 PM PDT
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