Cynthia Rodriguez's Divorce Lawyer: Madonna Was Final Straw

By Us MagazineJuly 6, 2008, 5:25 pm PDT
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Cynthia Rodriguez will file divorce papers from her husband A-Rod first thing Monday morning in Miami, her lawyer Earle Lilly confirms to Usmagazine.com.

"I'm sure you've heard rumors of the relationship he's had with Madonna - that's the straw that broke the camel's back," Lilly tells Us. "She's been fighting these terrible, demonic problems for two years and they don't go away.

The papers will allege "total emotional abandonment," Lilly explains. "You're not going to see a lot of other relationships named."

"The papers are designed not to be horrible, vitrolic, or create negative feelings, but just to put it out on the table and get this lady through a very troubled period in her life," Lilly adds.

At stake in the split: a pre-nuptial agreement, which is being reviewed by Lilly, the couples' estates and "a baseball player worth close to a billion dollars," he says.

Cynthia believes that A-Rod's late night visits to Madonna's apartment - first reported by Us Weekly - makes them more than just friends, Lilly says.

"Call it an affair, call it a relationship," Lilly says, "[she's put] up and tolerated his misconduct."

The split, Lilly says, has "been a long time" in the works for A-Rod's long suffering wife, who was also spotted with a stripper in Toronto, Miami and Dallas in 2007.

"Last year it was published he was with the other woman, and this is the final straw," Lilly tells Us. "She has finally said, 'no mas.' This is what it has come down to."

"Cynthia is a Greek Orthodox lady, brought up in a Greek Orthodox household. She doesn't believe in divorce," Lilly says. "She's devastated, she's hurt, she's a little angry."

He's a multi-million dollar baseball player, but that doesn't make any difference when there are two little kids at home and no husband," Lilly tells Us.

Lilly says Rodriguez hasn't seen his daughter Ella - born on April 21 - "more than once over the last several weeks."

(A source confirmed to Us Thursday that A-Rod "literally left 10 minutes after the baby was born, and then was at Madonna's.)

"His activities - despite the fact that he's a very prominent baseball player - doesn't make him a successful parent or husband," Lilly tells Us.

Cynthia returned to her Miami hometown Saturday afternoon after spending time withspending time with rocker pal Lenny Kravitz (who has denied any role in their marriage drama) in Paris.

A-Rod has remained mum on their split, despite reports being released that Madonna "brainwashed" him with Kabbalah, a religion the Yankee's father confirmed to Us that he's been studying. The New York Post also reported that he's "obsessed" with the Material Girl and would "go into a trance" when one of her videos came in at the gym.

Madonna and Guy Ritchie went to Kabbalah services in NYC Saturday.

Check out the new issue of Us Weekly, on newsstands now, for exclusive details about Madonna's surprising friendship with A-Rod, how she fell in and out of love with Ritchie, what divorce would mean for her $600 million estate and why a reconciliation isn't out of the question.



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  • cassie
    Ugh, who would want to be with Madonna? Like throwing a hot dog down a hallway.....
    report abuseposted July 7, 2008, 5:40 am PDT
  • Lisa H
    C-Rod is a woman scorned. Sounds like by having her attorneys' annoucing that she is divorcing him will embarass him and he will love her again. OH NO! won't work C-Rod. You cant make him love you. Move on....Just get your settlement and move on. You can't make a man be where he doesn't want to be.
    report abuseposted July 7, 2008, 4:19 am PDT
  • Clarence I
    who gives a f$%k really,happens everyday except your not famous,i'm sorry but i do not feel sorry for these people who CARESSSSSSSSSS
    report abuseposted July 7, 2008, 12:50 am PDT
  • Pal M
    It seems that Madonna is dating online now. I saw her profile on dating site "B l a c k W h i t e K i s s . c 0 M" last week. It is said she is dating young black on that site.
    report abuseposted July 6, 2008, 10:15 pm PDT
  • Bella Italiana
    It is hard when you are abandoned by the father of your child. She will have a hard time emotionally. Madonna...well, let's just say this....if the rumors are true then it wouldn't surprise me. She has always been selfish...her needs are always above those of other people. I am not a Madonna fan and will never be.
    report abuseposted July 6, 2008, 9:59 pm PDT
  • bluealiendevil
    I find it very strange that a lawyer would be discussing these things and saying the papers will be filed Monday morning??? This is 5 pm Sunday. Also here we go with "Sources" saying he was with baby for 10 minutes after birth then he went to Madonnas. Who are these so called sources and WHO WOULD KNOW THAT? If my husband did that he would not be back in the house. Come on!!
    report abuseposted July 6, 2008, 9:51 pm PDT
  • Maltese Doggie
    At least she'll be set financially forever. Try being a real struggling working class single mom of 2---- very hard. She has the money set for life. Don't complain.
    report abuseposted July 6, 2008, 7:56 pm PDT
  • Tina
    Lady, no offense, but if you knew your husband has a tendency to cheat on you, why would you allow yourself to become pregnant again?? I feel sorry for you because you married a guy that is a loser. I just hope you take him for everything you can and then move on with your life and take care of your kids privately.
    report abuseposted July 6, 2008, 6:38 pm PDT

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