Beyonce On Why She Waited To Walk Down The Aisle With Jay-Z

Access Hollywood - November 21, 2008 11:20 PM PST
Story photo: Beyonce On Why She Waited To Walk Down The Aisle With Jay-ZBeyonce on the cover of Seventeen s Dec 08/ Jan 09 issueSeventeenAccess Hollywood

NEW YORK, NY -- Over the years, Beyonce has largely kept her romance with rap mogul Jay-Z to herself.

The singer and actress went so far as to refrain from confirming her April 2008 marriage to the hip-hop superstar until last month. But now, in a new interview with Seventeen magazine, who named her Style Star of the Year, Beyonce opened up a little more about their relationship, explaining why it took her so long - eight years -- to walk down the aisle with her man.

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"I was 18 when we first met, 19 when we first started dating," Beyonce told Seventeen's December/January double issue. "There was no rush -- no one expected me to run off and get married. I really don't believe that you will love the same thing when you're 20 as you do at 30. So that was my rule: before the age of 25, I would never get married. I feel like you have to get to know yourself, know what you want, spend some time by yourself, and be proud of who you are before you can share that with someone else."

Though both Beyonce and her husband have been chart fixtures over the years, she hinted that neither of the superstars are as confident as they come across. When asked what's the best lesson they've learned together, Beyonce said, "that we're all human."

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"I don't care if you're picture-perfect on every magazine cover, and you're the most handsome, successful, coolest guy - you still get sad, and you still get your feelings hurt, and you still get confused and vulnerable and nervous and scared," the "If I Were A Boy" singer said. "You have to find a person you can make it through the tough times with. So you have to make sure it's real, and you have to make sure you are honest, that you can be yourself, and find somebody who loves you - not the fantasy of you, but who you really are."

And the real Beyonce, is made up of quite a few different aspects -- there's her on-stage alter ego, "Sasha Fierce," who she named her new album after ("I Am Sasha Fierce!") and there is the woman who has an eclectic, ever-changing sense of style.

"I've been a grunge girl, I've been a preppy girl, I've been a high-fashion couture girl, I've had my hair every way that you can imagine," she said. "I'm always trying new things. But right now I've decided to be who I really am. I've been wearing my hair straight without any extensions, I've been wearing less makeup, no lashes - just really pure and honest. I guess the more confident and comfortable you are with yourself, the more you're not afraid to reveal yourself."

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And one of the things she revealed to Seventeen about her plans for the future is a passion to head to New York City's famed theater district.

"I want to win an Oscar. I want to star on Broadway," she shared. "I'll always want to be performing and dancing. I can't imagine life without doing what I do."

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  • Robin
    I think some of the bloggers misread or misinterpreted Beyonce's comment. When she spoke of going natural and being real, she was referring to in her own personal time when she is not working. She never said she won't wear wigs or extensions while shooting a video, or while performing. She was talking about in her down time. You can look at her mother's hair and know she ca
    report abuseposted February 4, 2010 6:55 PM PST
  • Robin
    I think some of the bloggers misread or misinterpreted Beyonce's comment. When she spoke of going natural and being real, she was referring to in her own personal time when she is not working. She never said she won't wear wigs or extensions while shooting a video, or while performing. She was talking about in her down time. You can look at her mother's hair and know she ca
    report abuseposted February 4, 2010 6:55 PM PST
  • chocolate_cherry0561
    That liar has very short hair! Sooo....is thatt not her hair in the video"sweet dreams" where she has the finger waves?? liar...liar pants on fire! Who is she trying 2 fool,herself?
    report abuseposted February 3, 2010 9:18 PM PST
  • Kristy
    you rock beyonce
    report abuseposted January 22, 2010 11:37 PM PST
  • Jennifer
    I DON' T THINK B'S HAIR IS FAKE! YALL ARE ALL HATERS! IF SHE DO USE A LITTLE HAIR EXTENSION FOR VOLUME THEN THAT HER BUSINESS NOT YALLS! SO GET A LIFE AND BE BLESSED!!! BEYONCE I THINK YOU ARE ONE OF GODs TALENTED PERFORMERS AND MAY GOD BLESS AND I WILL KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS!!! KEEP GOD FIRST AND YOU WILL PREVAIL!!!!!! I AM SO HAPPY YOU FOUND LOVE! ITs AMAZING ISN' T IT?
    report abuseposted January 22, 2010 12:46 AM PST
  • nat
    I appreciate beyonce's talent but she needs to stop lying about hair extensions. she still wears them very much or her lace front wigs. Don't say you are being "pure and honest" when you are not in this article.
    report abuseposted October 24, 2009 3:15 AM PDT
  • nat
    I appreciate beyonce's talent but she needs to stop lying about hair extensions. she still wears them very much or her lace front wigs. Don't say you are being "pure and honest" when you are not in this article.
    report abuseposted October 24, 2009 3:15 AM PDT
  • Nicka
    AMEN! AMEN! AMEN! I only pray that you guys stay blessed!
    report abuseposted October 14, 2009 1:49 PM PDT
  • Nicka
    AMEN! AMEN! AMEN! I only pray that you guys stay blessed!
    report abuseposted October 14, 2009 1:44 PM PDT
  • Nicka
    AMEN! AMEN! AMEN! I only pray that you guys stay blessed!
    report abuseposted October 14, 2009 1:44 PM PDT
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