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  • Spotlight to Nightlight: Celebrity Nannies

    posted by Ali Landry - Sun Mar 15 2009, 2:46 PM PDT

    celebs: Ali Landry
    topics: Hotties | Kids

    Check out Goddess' new video program, "Spotlight to Nightlight," where celebrity moms talk parenting. In the first episode, host Ali Landry talks to E!'s Catt Sadler, tackles the issue of childcare, and gets the scoop on how much nannies to the stars really make from Westside Nannies in Los Angeles!

    Click here for the Spanish version.

    Ali's Take

    Working moms all share a similar struggle: How do we provide care for our little ones when we're at work?I want to start out by saying that I have a live-in nanny named Felicitas. While this is a luxury that may not be an option for everyone, we are so grateful that it is within our budget. She is a family friend and we absolutely adore her. My husband and I are both working parents, and our families live in Louisiana and Mexico. With our very abnormal schedules, taking our daughter Estela to a daycare facility wasn't going to work. We needed to have someone that we were completely comfortable with who was available at a moment's notice. For us, the best choice was to get a live-in nanny.

    Having someone -- whether it's a family member, daycare provider, or nanny -- share the responsibilities of raising your child can bring on a lot of emotions, including guilt, and even jealousy for some people. I, too, sometimes get that little twinge of mom guilt, but to be honest, I'm glad our daughter loves our nanny so much and vice versa. I wouldn't have it any other way. I think the bottom line for me is that I know Felicitas loves our child like her own. She makes me feel as though she would do anything to protect her if she had to. I also love that Estela is ALMOST as comfortable with her as she is with me -- ALMOST! :)

    Ali Landry and baby Estela adore their nanny, Felicitas. Courtesy Ali Landry

    Cute story ... when Estela was just learning to say "Mama," she would also call our nanny "Mama." Of course, Felicitas would correct her, but I would just laugh and say, "Yes, I am mama and, okay, this is your other mama." That would probably freak out a lot of my friends, but I guess I just finally learned not to sweat the small stuff.

    I feel secure knowing that my child only has one mother, and no one will take my place. We have open communication with our nanny and we definitely understand boundaries. There is enough love in our children's hearts to share with everyone in their lives. I am just thankful that we have someone that loves our daughter so much and takes such great care of her. Every mom has different needs and options when it comes to childcare. The big hurdle is finding out what works best for each family. How do you make it work?

    What type of childcare do you use?

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  • a
    This blog is disheartening. Ali, Landry is just another example of promoting the type of parenting that sadly is messing up our innocent youth. The selfish world of celebrity and careers taking precedence over the needs of our children is enough to call it borderline child abuse. Ali, keep your child and raise her. Don't give her to another woman. Be selfless for her and she will be,
    report abuseposted October 23, 2009 4:44 AM PDT
  • NAWAID MAQBOOL S
    no nani al all
    report abuseposted May 14, 2009 11:08 AM PDT
  • B C
    Right now my kids are in high school, but when they were little, I stayed home and took care of them myself. The only time I had any of them in daycare was when I went on field trips w/ an older child, and when I cared for my mother when she was ill. and I seldom left them with sitters at all..
    report abuseposted May 2, 2009 4:07 AM PDT
  • Cyndi S
    some local churches offer a mothers day out program to where moms can have time to theirselves or to give you time to get done whatever may need to be done...anyways its a christian environment and my kids seem to love it and the people are genuine...and for those that can afford a nanny...go for it cause the extra help is awesome..
    report abuseposted April 30, 2009 3:51 PM PDT
  • SABINA S
    Good site by indirectly give celebrity example to attract moms. What ,s the point of agenda for all this as seriously clueless here.OMG
    report abuseposted April 29, 2009 11:28 PM PDT
  • Kristin
    I work part time & have a nanny part time to care for my children & babysit so my husband & I may have a "date night" once a week. It sure beats hiring the local 16 year old when your family lives 1000 miles away! I think it's good for my children to see the importance of a woman's career- esp my daughters. Sometimes a job isn't
    report abuseposted April 29, 2009 10:38 PM PDT
  • carol
    Unfortunately, some mothers have to work to help support their children and family. Not all of us are so fortunate to be able to stay home with their children! I am not trying to keep up with the Jones', but rather simply keep up with the basics of life...we shouldn't judge so drastically and place people into categories they don't belong....
    report abuseposted April 28, 2009 7:46 PM PDT
  • Steph
    Doesn't "occasional babysitter" basically mean the same thing as "take care of my own kids?" That's how I interpret the "poll" choices.
    report abuseposted April 28, 2009 4:38 AM PDT
  • Socorro S
    For those saying you take care of your own kids, I mean it has the in school, but I mean, do you NEVER go ANYWHERE w/o the kids? Don't you and the hubby ever have a date night or you have a night alone? then....
    report abuseposted April 17, 2009 4:39 AM PDT
  • Danielle
    Yeah, why doesn't this article have a checkbox for "I take care of my own kids"??
    report abuseposted April 15, 2009 4:14 PM PDT
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