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• President Obama's Father's Day Message

  posted by Parade - Thu Jun 18 2009, 1:24 PM PDT

  celebs: Barack Obama
  topics: Pets | Kids

  Two days before the inauguration, Parade published a letter from Barack Obama to his daughters about what he hoped for them and all the children of America. The letter attracted international attention. On this Father's Day, Parade asked the President to reflect on what fatherhood means to him. Here is an excerpt of the original piece written by President Obama, which appears in full in this Sunday's issue of Parade:
  
  I observe this Father's Day not just as a father grateful to be present in my daughters' lives but also as a son who grew up without a father in my own life.
  
  In many ways, I came to understand the importance of fatherhood through its absence -- both in my life and in the lives of others. I came to understand that the hole a man leaves when he abandons his responsibility to his children is one that no government can fill. We can do everything possible to provide good jobs and good schools and safe streets for our kids, but it will never be enough to fully make up the difference.
  
  We need fathers to step up, to realize that their job does not end at conception; that what makes you a man is not the ability to have a child but the courage to raise one.

  President Obama and his daughters, Malia and Sasha, play with their dog, Bo. Win McNamee/Getty Images
  
  I know I have been an imperfect father. I know I have made mistakes. I have lost count of all the times, over the years, when the demands of work have taken me from the duties of fatherhood. There were many days out on the campaign trail when I felt like my family was a million miles away, and I knew I was missing moments of my daughters lives that Id never get back. It is a loss I will never fully accept.
  
  On this Father's Day, I think about the pledge I made to Malia the day she was born: that I would give her what I never had -- that if I could be anything in life, I would be a good father.

  Click here to read more of President Obama's heartfelt essay.

  See Family Photos of Obama and His Daughters at the White House

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