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  • Rihanna: 'I'm Stronger and Wiser'

    posted by Rebecca - Tue Nov 3 2009, 2:05 AM PST

    celebs: Rihanna
    topics: Musicians | Tattoos | Hotties

    Rihanna speaks out in Glamour's December issue. Matthias Vriens-McGrath/Glamour 2009 wasn't exactly the best year of Rihanna's life, but she's ending things on a high note: Glamour has named the singer one of their 2009 Women of the Year -- and now she's speaking out to the mag for the first time about the Chris Brown incident and the message she wants to send out to young women everywhere.

    Rihanna Speaks Out in Glamour

    "It taught me so much," she says of being assaulted by her ex-boyfriend and the aftermath that followed. "I went to sleep as Rihanna and woke up as Britney Spears. That was the level of media chaos that happened the next day. It was like, What, there are helicopters circling my house? There are 100 people in my cul-de-sac? What do you mean, I can't go back home?"

    Making the media circus even worse was the fact that photos of her badly bruised face circulated on the Internet.

    "That is not a photo you would show to anybody," she says. "I felt completely taken advantage of. I felt like people were making it into a fun topic on the Internet, and it's my life. I was disappointed, especially when I found out the photo was [supposedly leaked by] two women."

    When Rihanna's not busy entertaining her fans, she provides educational, social, and medical support to children in need through her Believe Foundation. Matthias Vriens-McGrath/Glamour

    So how did she cope?

    "My friends and family have been extremely supportive, and everyone has been there for me," she shares. "But at some point you are there alone. It's a lonely place to be -- no one can understand. That's when you get close to God."

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    As a result, Rihanna insists she "stronger, wiser, and more aware. You don't realize how much your decisions affect people you don't even know, like fans."

    That's why she's decided it's so important for her to open up about what happened on that awful February night.

    "I am in a really good place," shares the sexy singer. Matthias Vriens-McGrath/Glamour

    "I want to give as much insight as I can to young women ... to help speak for them," she notes. "My story was broadcast all over the world for people to see, and they have followed every step of my recovery. The positive thing that has come out of my situation is that people can learn from that. Domestic violence is a big secret. I want to give as much insight as I can to young women, because I feel like I represent a voice that really isn't heard. Now I can help speak for those women."

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    She also went back into the studio and poured her heart and soul into a new album, Rated R, which drops November 23.

    "I've put everything I've wanted to say for the past eight months into my music," she reveals. "[My new album] is super fearless -- which is exactly how I feel right now. I am in a really good place."

    Rihanna simply shines in a strapless Balmain dress. Matthias Vriens-McGrath/Glamour



    As for relationships, Rihanna isn't afraid to give romance another chance.

    "I want to find love in the next 10 years," she asserts. "That will be pretty annoying if I am 31 and still have never been in love!"

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  • Luscious911
    Rihanna went through a lot but her story seem to have missing pieces. i do hope she really has learnt from both their mistakes and not just making all these statements to sell her album. is it coincidence that she waits until her new album is about to hit the stores to do interviews??? makes me wonder if its just a publicity stunt! Chris did her wrong and he should pay the price.
    report abuseposted December 17, 2009 8:57 PM PST
  • Luscious911
    Rihanna went through a lot but her story seem to have missing pieces. i do hope she really has learnt from both their mistakes and not just making all these statements to sell her album. is it coincidence that she waits until her new album is about to hit the stores to do interviews??? makes me wonder if its just a publicity stunt! Chris did her wrong and he should pay the price.
    report abuseposted December 17, 2009 8:57 PM PST
  • RENEE
    IT HAPPEN AND NOWIT TIME TO MOVE ON . HOPE BOTH OF THEM LERN FROM IT. AND DONT LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN.
    report abuseposted December 3, 2009 7:35 PM PST
  • Daysi
    shes really pretty * * )
    report abuseposted December 3, 2009 7:16 PM PST
  • lady J.
    SHES STUPID..NO RESPECT FOR THIS ONE.
    report abuseposted December 2, 2009 4:56 PM PST
  • Anthony
    I DONT THINK THAT RHIANNA TOLD THE FULL TRUTH. ME PERSONALLY I DONT THINK THAT HAPPENED BECAUSE WHERE IS THE BRUISING NOW, AND RIGHT AFTER THE INCIDENT (MAYBE A COUPLE DAYS LATER) SHE WAS ON TELEVISION WITH NO SIGN OF BRUISING OR SCARRING, THEY NEED TO GET BOTH SIDES OF THE STORY NOT ONLY ONE SIDE. THERE A SAYING "IT TWO TO TANGLE" IT TAKES TWO TO FIGHT.
    report abuseposted December 2, 2009 11:34 AM PST
  • Selenafan1
    she so preetyy
    report abuseposted November 28, 2009 1:17 PM PST
  • Teresa D
    I have never felt any pitty for a woman who stays in an abusive relationship when she clearly has options, money, friends.......please-somewhere there is a housewife locked in a basement with no way out!
    report abuseposted November 23, 2009 7:16 PM PST
  • SCARLETT
    she prolly deserved it...
    report abuseposted November 23, 2009 3:09 PM PST
  • Tasheika
    i don't feel bad at all because if a female don't want to get hit or beat the fk up by a man keep yo hands off of them thats wats wrong wit chiks now a days thinking just because a man is a man and he don't suppose 2 hit a chik they can git away with putting they hands on them without any consequences!!! she was in the wrong if she put her hands on him first!!!
    report abuseposted November 23, 2009 8:24 AM PST
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